Wednesday, October 26, 2011

To Stay Back or Move On

There comes a time in life when you can’t help but ask yourself whether you want to “Stay Back or Move On”… It could be in your job, with your friends, with your parents, with your children, in your marriage, with your team, with your company, in your house, in the place you reside, for a special someone, for a noble cause….

It all depends on your assessment of the relative pros and cons in the long run …
If it is good and positive to stay back in comparison to moving on, then you should stay
If it is good and positive to move on in comparison to staying back, then you should move on
If both options are good and have a positive impact, then you should assess the relativity in terms of impact and choose the one which is beneficial for you
If both options are bad, then you should assess the relativity in terms of potential negative impact and choose the one which is least unfavorable for you..

Sometimes the decision is tough and complicated due to the past, number of variables, priorities, expectations of others, expectations of self, lack of clarity of your priorities and an uncertain future…

Sometimes the decision is really easy…  Simply because you are clean in your mind and heart about what you want and will do whatever it takes to achieve what you want

If you are meant to stay, you will
If you are meant to move on, you will
And you will understand Why?
Probably only several years later
When you sit under the sky on a starry night
In a quiet moment
And try to connect the dots of your life..

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