Friday, September 23, 2011

I finally made a double-century

Yipeeeeeeeee!  I finally managed to get 200 posts out...

While the first century were a lot easier and quicker... The second century has taken a lot longer than expected... For very many reasons - Ranging from lack of time to write, to impediments in posting, to delays in the refinement of thoughts, to delays in finding the right words to express....
Bur fortunately, NEVER for lack of a topic or words - As that would be doomsday for any writer..

And while numbers or targets are not on my agenda as far as writing is concerned, it is yet personally satisfying to reach 200.. A sense of achievement perhaps to tease and please my logical, analytical, objective, goal-oriented, number driven side of the brain... Interestingly, this number is completely inconsequential for the creative side of me...

And while there are several posts in various stages of completion - either in my head, in a document, on paper or saved in Drafts... I hope to be able to find the time to publish all of them...

Wishing me luck to make my third century soon!!!

The Most Precious Asset...

The most precious asset is TIME...

As Peter Drucker said "One cannot buy, rent or hire more time. The supply of time is totally inelastic. No matter how high the demand, the supply will not go up. There is no price for it. Time is totally perishable and cannot be stored. Yesterday's time is gone forever, and will never come back. Time is always in short supply. There is no substitute for time. Everything requires time. All work takes place in, and uses up time. Yet most people take for granted this unique, irreplaceable and necessary resource. "

And once you really consider time as an asset, then an ocean of possibilities open up in front of you.. What is important is to
* Value your time
* Value other's time
* Be judicious in how you use your time
* Think about how you will make time work for you
* Reflect on how you will make the most of time available
* Learn to apportion your time sensibly - In line with what you want to do in life
* Review how you utilize your time periodically - Once in a way, be a mirror of your time; This will open your eyes

Treat time as an asset - 
Acknowledge it, 
Invest in it, 
Effectively manage it!!!

With just one...

With just one gaze, you see more than you should
With just one ear, you hear more than you should
With just one word, you say more than you should
With just one sniff, you smell more than you should
With just one tear, you emote more than you should
With just one smile, you express more than you should
With just one touch, you experience more than you should
With just one thought, you reflect more than anyone could

Why? Why? Why?
How? How? How?

Void...

Some people leave a void in your life..

One which never be filled
One which no on can replace
One which makes you realize what they really meant
One which makes you understand their real value
One which helps you appreciate all that they did
One which forces you to look at things you never did
One which compels you to empathize
One which broadens your views and perspectives
One which gives you strength to endure
One which forces you to think, reflect
One which enables you to experience different emotions
One which entrusts on you new responsibilities
One which you makes you realize how much you took for granted
One which makes you realize how much they really left behind
One which makes you recognize how inter-related your lives were
One which makes you comprehend how much you learnt
One which makes you ponder on 'How much you said?', 'How much you did?'....
One which makes you reflect on 'What else you could have said?', 'What else you could have done?'
One which makes you accept that everything is temporary ; Nothing is permanent in the world

Maintenance Efforts

Maintenance Efforts take time... Way too much time - Many times beyond what you want.. What you wish.. What you intend..- Be it your house maintenance, maintenance of your car, maintenance of your appearance, maintenance of you weight, maintenance of your health, maintenance of your relationships, maintenance of your finances, maintenance of your thoughts, maintenance of your hard disk, maintenance of your mail box, maintenance of your wardrobes, maintenance of your paper-work, maintenance of your art-work, maintenance of your IT applications, maintenance of your music, maintenance of your bookmarks / favorites, maintenance of your socks / shoes / foot-wear, maintenance of your photographs, maintenance of your life memories, maintenance of your online profiles [Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.], maintenance of your resume, maintenance of................................

And yet, there are some similar traits of any maintenance efforts:
* They are absolutely essential; else they magnify and manifest in ways you can never imagine
* They take time and effort
* They are perpetuity; and sometimes haunt you for life :(
* They are usually boring and monotonous to work on
* They usually require only YOU to work on them - You can't delegate or outsource :(

Characteristics of a Mother

* Unconditional Love
* Ability to take selflessness to a whole new level
* Unimaginably selfish for the best interests of her children
* Open to try out anything if it means a better tomorrow for her children
* Willingness to learn, re-learn & un-learn: At any age, time and stage of life
* Openness to explore numerous alternatives - If it means new possibilities and opportunities for her children
* Unparalleled patience
* Ability to build and nurture relationships – If it will make a difference to the life of her children
* Countless sacrifices
* Openness to change – both internal and external changes
* Volcano of Emotions, as far as her children are concerned
* Unmatched Decision making skills
* Strong Gut / Intuition with respect to her children
* Excellent Mind readers of her children
* Always ready to do what it takes to make her children happy – No matter what it takes
* Excellent Mood readers of her children
* Fiercely protective
* Always has an answer to every question – No matter how well-read / literate she is
* Always knows the right thing to say to her children – Whatever be the situation
* Always proud of their children
* Amazing physical energy – And sometimes almost re-define what is humanly possible by one individual
* Phenomenal Mental strength
* Self-taught on all motherhood skills: No books, No classroom trainings, No guidance…
* Able to skill, re-skill, up-skill, down-skill: Based on the expectations of her children
* Always has time for her children; And if she does not, she creates it :)
* Is always there when children need her the MOST!!!

This post is dedicated to my mother and my daughter

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Role Models


Many people I know always look for role models in super achievers… Probably because their lives and successes have been glorified by multiple mediums through varied channels and in diverse forums. This glorification gives them an elevated status in society.

With all due respect to their achievements, I wonder why we can’t look around us for the “real-life achievers” to be our role models
People whom we interact with on a daily basis
People who each have their struggles of life
People who are all living with multiple constraints
People who trying to meet their diverse set of commitments
People who are constantly striving to meet other’s expectations
People who have made and continue to make innumerable sacrifices
And people who live life with grace, self-respect, confidence and dignity in-spite of everything!

It could be your mother, father, sister, brother, wife, son, daughter, friend, extended family, boss, colleague, maid, milk-man, cobbler, vegetable vendor, teacher, doctor, nurse….. anyone…

Sometimes all it takes is to make an attempt to ask
Sometimes all it takes is to make an attempt to listen
Sometimes all it takes is to take a pause to reflect
Sometimes all it takes is a moment to realize

Look around you.. There are many role-models… 
From whom you can learn
From whom you can be inspired
Just look… with open eyes, open ears, open mind and open heart!

Self Discipline


One of the almost dying virtues today is self-discipline. It’s hard (almost impossible) for many of us to be self-disciplined in-spite of knowing its many benefits in life…

If you are disciplined about your every-day diet, you will most probably be endowed with good health;
If you are disciplined about your exercise, you will most probably be bestowed with a great appearance;
If you are disciplined about reading, you will probably be knowledgeable on a wide range of subjects;
If you are disciplined about meditation, you will probably be self-aware and able to achieve a different level in life;
If you are disciplined about your savings and investments, you will most probably be able to generate wealth;
If you are disciplined in your studies, you will most probably get good grades;
If you are disciplined at work, you will most probably be able to achieve professional success – at least over a period of time;
If you are disciplined about your every day routine, you will most probably be able to find time to do the things that you want, you love…
If you are disciplined about your goals in life, you will most probably be able to achieve them;

Some say it’s boring to be disciplined
Some say it’s not worth it to be disciplined
Some say it’s monotonous to be disciplined
Some say they don’t have time for discipline
Some say they are born disciplined
Some say they were made disciplined
Some say they are not born to be disciplined
Some say they were born to discipline others
Some say it takes a lot of time to be disciplined
Some say it’s being hard on yourself to be disciplined
Some say it takes then away from what they want to do now…
Some say there are no instant benefits [& it is the age of instant everything] in being disciplined

And I say …Self-discipline is a great asset.. 
One which is an important investment today for a secure, better, happier and brighter tomorrow… 
Definitely worthwhile to start building this asset from NOW!!

Benefits of Yoga


Listing below the key benefits of yoga based on my personal experience:
·         Exponential increase in energy levels
·         Enables in creation of a daily routine
·         Promotes self-discipline
·         Brings agility in the body
·         Helps in toning the body
·         Tests your self-motivation
·         Brings flexibility in the body
·         Controls various medical ailments
·         Prevents several diseases
·         Makes you look years younger
·         Gives you ‘Me’ time
·         Enhances the metabolic rate of the body
·         Improves blood circulation
·         Brings about an overall state of well-being
·         Helps nurture better relationships [with family / friends]
·         Enables in mind-control
·         Brings focus in thought
·         Brings clarity of perspective
·         Creates a sense of balance in life
·         A different kind and level of inner peace
·         Creates a feeling of happiness
·         Totally different level of connectedness
·         A new experience, A new YOU!!!

Monday, September 19, 2011

What Rs 4999 can buy?

Vegetables and Fruits for a family for at least 2 months
A cook for at least 2 months
Fuel for your vehicle for at least about 1 month  [Of course, depends on type of vehicle and distance commuted]
Groceries for a family for at least 1 month
A nanny for at least about 1 month
A basic 1 room accommodation in a decent locality for at least about 1 month
At least about 1 month maintenance bills of your apartment [including Electricity, Water and Maintenance Charges]
At least 2 haemo dialysis sittings
Basic medical check-up at any hospital [including blood work and routine medical tests]
At least 3 root canal treatments with a dentist of repute
At least 10 consultations with a reputed pediatrician
At least 15 consultations with a reputed cardiologist
At least 25 CD’s / DVD’s
At least about 10 books
At least 100 movies on Tata Sky ShowCase
A personal driver for about at least 1 month
A decent mobile
Professional services of a dietician for at least 1 month
A Corelle crockery set
At least 2 pairs of jeans
At least 1 elaborate visit to a high-end beauty parlor for a woman
Mobile bill payment for at least 3 months [Varies based on your usage!]
A good branded perfume
At least 20 movies in the theater
A decent stroller for a baby
At least twenty packets of tissue papers of 50 pieces / pack [Of course, in a whole sale shop]
A lunch party with a group of 10 friends at a good restaurant
A one way ticket from Delhi to Bangalore
A personal yoga instructor for at least 1 month
A gym membership for at least 1 month
A Tommy Hilfiger jeans for a adult male
Small diamond studs as the first ear-ring for a baby
An exotic lunch buffet at a five / seven star restaurant for at least 2 people
A one-night stay @ a three / four-star restaurant (depending on the location)
A designer birthday dress for a 1 year old baby!!!

International Angels Day – 10 Sep 2011

10 Sep 2011 was celebrated as International Angel’s Day. And if you are wondering what this is –International Angel Day™ was coined by renowned author and spiritual psychologist Doreen Virtue in response to the fear and despair experienced by the international community after the events of September 11 in New York.  The focus is to remind people that hope and goodwill are still relevant and evident across the human community.

I was inquisitive and curious about this topic and hence read further – Topics on Angels, Archangels, Guardian Angels, Angel Healing, Angel Therapy, Angel Reiki Healing, Angel Meditation, Angel Energy Exchange, Angel Reiki, etc. So much written, followed, believed and practiced...

The underlying premises are that:
• Angels exist
• Everyone has angels / guardian angels and archangels
• You can communicate with angels
• Angels respond / reciprocate back to you

Angel Therapy is a non-denominational spiritual healing method that involves working with a person's guardian angels and archangels, to heal and harmonize every aspect of life. Angel Therapy also helps you to more clearly receive Divine Guidance from the Creator and angels. [Src: http://www.angeltherapy.com/about_at.php].. It’s whole world out there…

For more information, refer below links:
http://www.angeltherapy.com/
http://www.healingrainbow.in/
http://healingrainbow.net/
http://angelsandguardians.com/
http://www.myangelcardreadings.com/healing

Monday, September 5, 2011

A Perfect Life?

Is there anything like a perfect life? is something that I have been mulling about for a while..
Here’s what I discovered:

* The Definition of Perfection is personal: What is a perfect life for one may be less-than-perfect for another. For one, a perfect life may be one in which you have complete independence in life. For another, a perfect life is one in which you have a happy family. For another, a perfect life is one in which there are no constraints of any sorts. For another, a perfect life is one which is abundant with all material comforts. For another, a perfect life is one in which you are in full control of yourself. For another, a perfect life is one in which you have complete freedom in every life dimension. For another, a perfect life is one in which you achieve balance in all life dimensions…

* It is TOUGH to achieve perfection in all life dimensions: Life has many dimensions which can be broadly classified as physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social and financial. It is tough (& almost close to impossible) to achieve perfection in all life dimensions even if you use your own personal definition in each of these dimensions. Nevertheless, it is possible

* The endeavor for a perfect life has to be conscious: Only a conscious attempt to aim for the perfect life will help one even get there. If not, it is imperative that you settle for the less-than-perfect life

* The strive for a perfect life is perennial : Given that a perfect life is elusive, the attempt to achieve the same is continuous… and usually lasts a lifetime
Perfection is a state of mind - One which can be achieved by aiming for the perfect inner state. The perfect inner state usually manifests itself externally in many ways – in the way we re-define perfection, in the way we view ourselves, in the way we view others and in the way we view the world.

Ask and You shall Get..

Over the recent past, I have been in situations where things did not go the way I wished simply because I did not ask. I wondered why many of us feel inhibited to ask – Be it with our parents, spouses, children, at work, friends, neighbors, strangers, etc. etc. etc.

Among the many reasons could be that - it is a personality characteristic (that one feels inhibited to ask), some past experiences when things ended unfavorably when we asked, upbringing (we were taught not to ask), over analysis (in terms of what others will think about us and how it will impact the relationship), we think it is inappropriate to ask (either the wrong timing or the wrong person)…

What I’ve learnt (and some lessons the hard way) is:
• If you ask, many times you get what you want; sometimes even more than what you expect!
• Be clear and precise when you ask something from others; most people do not understand cryptic requests, clues or long-winded requests. Be polite and courteous, but most importantly specific in your request
• If you don’t ask, you will probably not get what you want. So ask!
• It is perfectly fine to ask for what you want. Of course, when and whom you choose to ask is your discretion
• If others refuse your request, its fine – As if you always got what you wanted in life!
• If someone refuses your request once, does not mean that they will always refuse your request. Try not to take it personally!
• Many times, neither do others know nor can they guess what’s in your mind. Hence it is necessary to explicitly put forth your request – Just ask!
• It is better to ask, than not to ask
• And if there is an emotional reason for your request, briefly mention it along with your request. It is likely to strike a chord with others and they will most likely oblige :)

Guru...Shishya...

The relationship between a Guru and Shishya is a precious one - one which you can truly comprehend only if you have had a great Guru, have had a great Shishya, you have been a great Shishya or you have been a great Guru.

At different stages and phases of life, we all play the role of a Guru or Shishya. Once we become adults, many of us rarely wear the hat of a Shishya – simply because we stop learning. For some it’s conscious and a matter of choice as they believe that there is nothing to learn, or there is no point in learning. For some it’s unconscious, as they are so busy in their day-to-day routine lives that they rarely take time to learn anything new. Of course, you don’t need a Guru to learn everything– There are other ways to learn. For e.g.: Self-learning. However if you have a good Guru – Learning becomes all the more interesting, focused, progressive, involved, regular, structured and swift.

To be a great Guru [especially a Guru for adults], one needs:
• To have mastery [knowledge, skills] on the subject at hand
• Have rich experience
• Be willing to share – knowledge, skills, learning’s, experiences
• Be able to motivate and inspire
• Understand the Shishya
• To customize the learning program based on the Shishya
• Be cognizant of the progress of the Shishya
• Be able to communicate / express successfully
• Provide feedback effectively – both positive and negative

To be a great Shishya [especially for adults], one needs:
• Be passionate about the subject / topic
• Have a thirst for learning
• Be self-disciplined
• Be open to feedback
• Be self-motivated

In life what you need is...

1) Purpose in Life: A purpose in life which one is passionate about is vital to sail through life. If you have a dream which is larger than life, it usually provides the required fuel, energy and focus required to forge ahead in life on a day-to-day basis

2) Positivity: A positive approach and attitude to life keeps on going through many a rainy and sunny day. Be positive! Think positive! Associate with positive people! Speak positive! And most importantly, try to find something positive in every life experience

3) Self-Belief: This means believing in yourself every time, every single time. At times, there may be moment of doubt, but as long as these are lingering flashes, and self-belief is the pre-dominant thought, you will be able to surpass (m)any hurdles in life.

4) Self-Motivation: Self motivation is a very important attribute in life. Self motivation is the ability to be able to get yourself to do things – irrespective of the circumstances or constraints around you.

5) Self-Discipline: Self-discipline is about doing what you believe is the right thing to do regularly. And to be honest to yourself on how regular you are.

6) Self-Confidence: Be confident in yourself - your abilities, your expressions, your communication, your decisions, your strengths, your weaknesses, your thoughts, your actions

7) Time Management: Time Management is a very important aspect to lead a fulfilling and happy life. We all play many roles, shoulder different responsibilities and constantly strive to meet several expectations. To be able to successfully do this, it is important to be able to effectively manage your time. This is possible by right prioritization, meticulous planning and efficient execution

8) Decision Making: Decision making skills are imperative in one’s everyday life. We all need to make several decisions regularly – on small issues, big issues, complex issues and issues which change your life forever. Adult life can be complicated many times when you need to make decisions for others – And several times in ambiguous situations with limited data points. Hence, you need to be able to have a clear head and a thought process which will enable you to make decisions. And then after making the decision, you need to live to see the consequence of the decision.

9) Common Sense: A little common sense goes a long way in how well one is able to live in the complex world around us

10) Desire to experience Life: Your desire to live and experience life is an important element for how rich and diverse your experiences are, and this in turn impacts the quality of your thoughts and your life.

11) Never-Give-Up Attitude : An attitude in which you don’t give up – on your dreams, on your hopes, on your values, on your beliefs, on what’s close to your heart go a long way in how your life shapes up…

Compiled based on a discussion with SPK

Friday, September 2, 2011

Pre-Marital Checklist

Are you entering the world of marriage? If yes, few questions, suggestions, tips and advice listed below. The list below is intended to get you thinking on some of the most important aspects which play a key contributing role in shaping you marriage… your life. This is not an exhaustive list; nevertheless it aims to focus on the main aspects.

1) What do you want from life? – It’s important to be clear on what you want from life. One can never be fully prepared for marriage. But if you are clear on what you want from life, you will be able to choose / select a suitable life partner. Most of us don’t know what we want from life. Over a period of time, the wrong choice of partner can leave one disillusioned, disappointed, unhappy and filled with a host of several other negative emotions; which in turn influences the rest of your life.

2) Are you willing to share your life? – Many people value their privacy and guard it with their life. In marriage, you should be willing to share your life. Of course, one still reserves the right to one’s private thoughts and time. But in general, sharing is integral and core to marriage. So either you learn to share, or review the decision of when or with whom you want to enter into wed-lock.

3) Health – One’s overall health plays a vital role in your married life. If you and your partner are endowed with good health, then this parameter is not a consideration at all. If one of you has a medical history which could potentially impact your married life in any way, it is important to be honest about the same before marriage. If both of you have health issues even prior to marriage, then you need to figure out a practical way to address them in the future or you may want to review whether you want to enter into matrimony at all.

4) Day-to-day Living – One’s day to day lifestyle and how you conduct yourself in public and private is an important ingredient in a successful marriage. It is important to understand the important elements and activities of your partner’s everyday life before marriage. Simple things like What time does he / she sleep?, What are the few things that he / she should do every day?, What does he / she like to do regularly?, What are his / her food preferences?, etc.
It is important for couples to discover that daily routine and equilibrium in a marriage. This of course means a few changes in your current lifestyle. But the most important question is Are you willing to make these changes for him / her? – If yes, then in the long term you will most likely be able to lead a happy married life. If no, then you probably want to review your choices and priorities.

5) Respect – Mutual respect is an important ingredient in marriage. And it has to be a two-way street. It is important to respect your partner’s family, upbringing, past, preferences, choices, future plans, interests, friends, dreams, thoughts, emotions…. And the thing about respect is you got to earn it… No one can force you to genuinely respect another. If you are not able to respect each other before and through your marriage, then day-to-day life becomes stressful. You may want to consider how much stress you are willing to take!

6) Values – You need to be aware of each other values and be able to revere them. You may not understand them fully, may not agree with them fully - but it is important to appreciate and support your spouse when the need arises. Also, if your partner’s core value system is not aligned with your views, it is important to speak about it before marriage. Expecting your spouse to let-go completely of his / her core values can be an unreasonable expectation; one which you want to review and discuss

7) Finances – Your current financial situation, your financial contributions towards the house, your view towards every-day spending, your financial planning for the future has a significant impact on your married life. If you and your partner’s views are extremely divergent on most aspects of finance, it is important to speak about it before marriage. At the end of the day, one of the most important variables in your life is your financial situation. Hence, it is important to have common / shared views on the major aspects of money – specially spending and saving.

8) Trust –Trust is one of the foundational elements in any relationship and one of the core ingredients to marriage. You need to be able to blindly trust your partner on many aspects as you sail though the journey of life. And the seeds of trust are usually sowed at the beginning of any relationship. So, one important question that you need to ask is “Do I trust him / her?

9)  Change – Change is fundamental to human nature as we experience life. And in marriage, it is important to be open to change, to change and to accept change. If your partner is closed to change, you need to critically ask yourself whether you would be willing to make all the changes in life?

10) Are you Happy? – And finally, are you happy with your partner? Do you look forward to spend time with each other, to meet each other, to talk to each other, to share with each other, to be with each other, to laugh with each other…. At the end of the day, we all want to be happy. And if you partner makes you happy, then you will probably end up blissfully married.

Ending with the Words of Wisdom:
• Marriage is a mixed bag – happiness, joys, togetherness, companionship, shared responsibilities, new experiences, rainbows, discovery, passions, gains, laughs, learning, acceptance, growth, change, new bonds and associations, re-calibration of expectations and a harbinger of a new life chapter; but also compromises, sacrifices, hard-work, sadness, worry, anxiety, stress, losses, tears, adjustments, letting-go,…..
• If you do decide to get married, then it is worthwhile to do spend time in observing and speaking to married people [ranging from newly married to a couple married for 50 years]. It will at least give you a realistic picture of what marriage is all about
• Enter marriage with an open mind – open to yourself, open to your partner and lastly, open to the changes in life….

Read Someone's Mind..

There are some times when I wish I could read someone’s mind…

To discover how they think
To unravel what they are thinking at this minute
To learn how they make decisions
To know what they really like
To understand what’s really important to them
To know what they don’t like
To learn how they judge
To understand what they really want?
To know what is true, what is false?
To uncover how much is true, how much is false
To discover how much they really share
To uncover how much they really care

The Indian Thali..

The Indian Thali is a great meal – in terms of a balanced mix of essential nutrients [carbohydrates, proteins, vitamins, minerals, fat, etc.], in terms of colors [wide ranges from greens to red to yellow to white to orange, etc], in terms of varieties [dry, to semi-dry, to gravy, to hard, to soft, to hot, to cold, etc.] Tin terms of flavors [there’s usually sweet, sour, salty, spicy, etc.], in terms of quantities [typically served in small katoris], in terms of presentation [typically beautifully arranged in a thali] and also in terms of price. If you love food and can appreciate the “art of food”, you will generally love a Thali!
The many types of thalis available across India – Gujarathi, Andhra, South Indian, North Indian, Punjabi, Rajashani, etc. Each of them have a great range of vegetables and are usually cooked in the authentic style of a specific region - representing the soul and spirit of place and its history. Most Thalis typically tend to be at least a 3 course meal – Beginning with a starter, continuing into the main course and ending with a dessert. And then of course, there are all kinds of variations available today customized to customer requirements and preferences.
If you are really hungry, Thalis provide a wholesome hearty meal.. One in which you typically tend to over-eat; and which keeps you longing for more… And there’s nothing like a hearty Thali followed by long siesta, followed by a hot drink with great company! Simple pleasures of life J

Are you on a diet?

Dieting is a fad in the life’s of many people – One which is usually initiated by a trigger [and in general an external one] and then is executed for a short duration before it is conveniently side-lined and people are back to their original [& mostly unhealthy] ways. Over the recent past, I have observed several people enthusiastically starting a diet program – but abysmally few have been successful in the long term.

Typically, one of the following possible outcomes occurs – There is some drastic weight loss in the short term followed by extra weight gain in the long term, there is some initial weight loss and then back to the original weight, there is no real weight gain or loss and for a very few, there is a significant weight loss which is maintained over the long term. Weight loss to reach the optimal body weight and long term weight maintenance are the true yardsticks for measurement of success of a good diet program.

It amazes me at the number of diet programs that are available – Ranging from diets based on your blood group, your Ayurvedic profile, your ethnicity, your gender, your age, etc. etc. etc. While all diets have their genesis and rationale, and also do achieve varying degrees of success on different individuals, what I’ve realized is that “No one diet is the best mantra for all!!!

To be successful in achieving tangible results in a diet program:
1) A diet program has to be objective driven and time bound – There has to be a specific objective of a diet program – whether it is weight loss, inch loss, fat loss, etc. And it has to be time-bound. For e.g.: “I want to lose weight” is a great thought, but cannot really be an objective. “I want to lose 8 kgs in 3 months” is a good starting objective.  Most importantly, the objective has to be realistic and bound by a reasonable time frame.

2) A diet program should really focus on the individual – One which takes into account the following parameters - Your family history, Your past (specifically in terms of what contributed to your weight gain), Your age, Your gender, Your medical history & current medical situation (if any), Your current lifestyle, Your strengths and weaknesses regarding food, Your motivation levels (whether you are self-motivated or not), Your support system at home, Your professional  demands and Your day-to-day routine

3) A diet has to be phased into your every-day routine - It is hard for most people to be on a regular diet today and start a radically different diet from tomorrow – Especially if there are a significant changes in terms of the amount of calorie intake and major changes in the permitted nutrients. Hence, it is important for a diet to be gradually introduced over a span of 2 weeks by slowly making the required dietary changes

4) Continuous Measurements are vital – A good diet program is one which monitors and tracks the progress continuously. Be it the weight or any other measurement, it is important to ensure that these statistics are recorded systematically. It is also vital to ensure that the measurements are tracked in the same way every time – For e.g.: Using the same weighing machine and at the same time of the day. Else, Minor variations are possible. Also it is important not to note the measurements too frequently [like every 3-4 hours] as there would not really be any great difference.

5) Periodic course corrections are essential – Based on the progress, a diet program should be modified keeping in mind an individual’s response. Close monitoring and tracking of what’s being consumed and how the individual is reacting to various elements of the diet should be factored in defining the next course of action. At the outset, it is recommended to create a diet plan for a short duration [say 2-3 days] and keep a close watch on the progress. Based on this, the diet program for the next few days should be suggested.

6) A good diet program should focus on long term – Once the recommended diet has enabled achieve the desired objective, it is important to phase-out to a normal healthy diet. This phase is usually called as the Maintenance Diet phase and is crucial to sustain weight in the long term. It is important to introduce a diet which is healthy and has a balanced composition of essential nutrients (carbohydrates, proteins, fat, vitamin, minerals, etc.). The diet should also focus ensuring the required calorie intake on a daily basis , thus contributing towards good health and overall wellness

In conclusion, A good diet program is one which becomes a habit.. One which forces an individual to eat healthy and eat right!!!