Saturday, February 14, 2015

Self-Love is the best love | Ways to love yourself this Valentine's Day

"The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it; you will discover that for you the world is transformed." BY Jiddu Krishnamurti

So it is February. The month of love as Valentine's Day is round the corner. And as I observe the many hues of love in the air, I wonder what does the 4 letter word "love" really mean?
Is there a universal definition of love?
Does love mean the same thing to you and me?


As I look at my own life, and observe the lives of people around me here's the thing about love that I discovered | There is no universal definition of love -- Love means different things to different people. Even for a single individual, the definition of love changes as one evolves in the journey of life; and the emotions, expressions, intensity and manifestations vary based on the relationships and phase of life you are in. However, what is universal is that Love has always been a very powerful, positive and transformational human emotion.

While Valentine's day is about celebrating 'love', I think one of the best tributes to 'love' is to love yourself unconditionally. So in this post, I'm sharing a few ways you can love yourself.

Smile and Laugh
"Smile, it's free therapy." BY Douglas Horton
Smile a lot, laugh a little or may be a lot today. It goes a long way in keeping your mind healthy, balanced in perspective and in better control of life. The simplest way is to do things which trigger your smiles - like reading jokes, watching a fun movie / cartoon, re-living the good happy moments of the past. Whatever it is, find a reason to smile / laugh - it can be a wonderful way to love yourself

Exercise | Get the body moving and heart racing
"True enjoyment comes from activity of the mind and exercise of the body; the two are ever united." BY Wilhelm von Humboldt
A good work-out makes you feel active, energetic, happy and upbeat, in addition to ensuring your overall physical health and well-being. According to this article from Harvard Health, in addition to the physical benefits "exercise changes the brain in ways that protect memory and thinking skills."

Indulge | in the culinary delights and exotics
"Your diet is a bank account. Good food choices are good investments." BY Bethenny Frankel
There is something about good food which teases and pleases you in more than one way. A nice hearty meal which includes one / more of your favorite dishes is a good way to love yourself. For many, good food is about indulgence (high fat and high sugar content) - Such food can be divine. And it is OK to indulge once in a way

Dress Up | Look your best
"I think clothing is transformative. When you put something really beautiful on, you feel something. In so many ways, we're always playing a form of dress-up - it's just a grown-up, much chicer version of it. It's nice to be able to be whoever you want to be." BY Jason Wu
Looking good makes you feel positive and confident, changes the way you think and also changes the way others perceive you. Of course, it can also get one / many compliments come your way, and who doesn't like that?

Spend time with people you love
"Spend time with those you love. One of these days you will say either, 'I wish I had' or 'I'm glad I did'". BY Zig Ziglar
It could in the real world or virtual world, but just spend time with people you love. It will make you happy and joyful, and hopefully them too.

Do one thing you really love today
"Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart." BY Rumi
Small, Big, Fun, Adventurous, Routine, Boring. If you enjoy doing it, do it today. It can be reading, music, dance, just giving a piece of your mind to someone, laughing with your kids, writing - Do one thing you really love today

Shopping / Retail Therapy
"Whoever said money can't buy happiness simply didn't know where to go shopping." BY Bo Derek
There is some unexplainable joy and happiness in shopping for yourself - Whatever you buy (clothes, footwear, perfumes, accessories, books, gadgets, cars, paintings, sculpture, art), and where ever you buy (online / offline): The head and heart usually feel a lot lighters when the purse strings are loose.

Make a financial investment in your name
"Generally speaking, investing in yourself is the best thing you can do" BY Warren Buffet
Securing your financial future is a wonderful gift to yourself, and what better way than with a worthwhile financial instrument. Find a way to make your money work for you.

Practice the 'silent hour' today
"Silence is a source of great strength" BY Lao Tzu
1 hour of silence in a day is a wonderful way to love yourself. Shut off the news, views, Google, phone, Facebook, Twitter, TV, worries - and just be silent. Feel free to think and feel what you want, but don't say anything. Try it. Definitely worth it!

Do a random good deed today
"The nicest feeling in the world is to do a good deed anonymously-and have somebody find out." BY Oscar Wilde
Doing a random good deed for a known or unknown face in the real or virtual world is a fantastic act. If you are wondering how, a few suggestions - Donate blood, Sponsor a meal for someone who can't afford it, sponsor education for someone who can't afford it, help someone on social media (answer a question, share a resource, write for a cause). Your good deed will make a difference to someone, and that is a wonderful way to give back for all the wonderful things you have in life

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. BY Lucille Ball

You've got to love yourself first. You've got to be okay on your own before you can be okay with somebody else. BY Jennifer Lopez

As I sign off, here's wishing you a very Happy Valentine's Day. Love Yourself on this special Day.

Leave a comment to let me know how you plan to love yourself this Valentine's day

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